I Am Raven wrote:
RT: you bunch of *bleep*ing *bleep-bleep*s. Halfway the previous page I said something pretty heavy.
And no one -I REPEAT NO ONE!- has responded to it.
RT: I'm glad people can't look into my mind. Mostly they would just stare at me, mouths open. There may be several cases of "Run away run away!" as well...
I don't mean to be mean, but you picked the completely wrong thread for it.
This is the "Fleeting/Random Thoughts" thread. Your feelings about your grandmother should not be either of those things. I'm sure there are plenty of threads on death and stuff, and even if there aren't, the Confessional Thread is more the calibre of the replies you want. They have trained comforters and Kleenex Operators and similar anecdotes and hugs and above all what I'm trying to say here is that it is not a thread completely devoted to ignoring the person before you and posting silly things so that the rest of the fora has less of it.
Having said that, given that you've brought it up here, may I offer my condolences, I'm desperately sorry that your grandmother has lung cancer, and I hope that you can have a good cry, have some fun with her, and perhaps end up grieving for her in the proper way. I empathise, because my own grandmother died from bleeding out of the carotid artery last Friday, and a friend's brother had a heart attack and died the week before. Death sucks, and waiting for death sucks even more, because it could happen at any time and you feel that you need to be there around them all the time. Just make sure that she knows you love her and everything else ought to take care of itself.
It has come to my attention that this has topped the page. Guys, please talk heaps and bury this post.