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Narsil
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Re: How to stop falling?

Postby Narsil » Thu Feb 21, 2008 2:22 am UTC

Some things I've noticed:

1) Get her off the pedestal.
Chances are, she isn't that great. I'm sure whatever you see in her is somewhat valid, but keep it mind that she's a human being, in no higher class than you.

2) Make a move.
The longer you wait things out, the more likely it is that you will congeal into friends, and she'll get another boyfriend before she had any idea you were interested. Don't be creepy. Get you there, talk to her, make her realize you're a cool person, and ask her out.

3) There's no trick to it.
She doesn't have this any more planned out than you. Everyone is just winging it, really, and nothing is going to happen if you don't make it happen. Conversely, if you continue to play the victim, that's the role you'll get.

Lastly, duh. Of course it's you she enjoys talking to. Who the hell else would she have time to talk to if you're chatting her up 6 hours a day? That means she's interested. GREEN MEANS GO. GO!
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Re: How to stop falling?

Postby GMThomas » Thu Feb 21, 2008 2:41 am UTC

I mean, you've said you've known her for about a week now, right? If you ask her and she says no, then just continue to know her and be friends. You've really got nothing to lose.

so I thought when I asked this one girl out. It completely ruined our friendship.

Anyways, she's still on MSN a lot in Texas, so I can't camp :)

1) Get her off the pedestal.

You receive some cake for remembering my past topic.

Now let me say this. I'm guessing it's terrible class to ask them over instant messenger? I wont see her till March 1st...

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Re: How to stop falling?

Postby zten » Thu Feb 21, 2008 2:44 am UTC

GMThomas wrote:Anyways, she's still on MSN a lot in Texas, so I can't camp :)


Oh. 'kay! I figured "trip to someplace else" meant no intertubes. What the hell was I thinking, when everyone has a cell phone? -_-;

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Re: How to stop falling?

Postby GMThomas » Thu Feb 21, 2008 2:47 am UTC

What the hell was I thinking, when everyone has a cell phone? -_-;

Except her :)


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