Sorry to change the delicious subject of perfume and nice smells:
A couple of weeks ago I visited a property while I was looking for another room. The landlord seemed very nice, and after seeing the room we had a nice chat about random stuff. He felt a bit too nice though, after a while, he offered me to stay in the living room for as long as I wanted, and he even offered to give me a ride home since he had an appointment nearby anyway. Also, in the middle of the conversation, he started touching me on my back
I had been clear about being in a happy relationship, and that I wasn't interested, but somehow I ended up getting a full love-at-first-sight confession from him, and a slightly uncomfortable sort of touching me.
Even though he has done things you really *shouldn't* do as a landlord, I stick to my earlier statement that he really seemed like a nice guy and he brought me home safely like he promised.
But once home again, I started to realise things didn't go as they ought to have gone. The day after, my mum was visiting and he texted me to ask if I wanted to meet up after 6 for a drink, and i replied pretty coldly that I had a visitor. A week after that, he tried to call me. I didn't pick up. He tried to call me again, but again I didn't pick up. After an hour, he called again, this time anonymously. Again, I didn't pick up.
Two days later, he called again. Still I didn't pick up. Instead, I emailed him asking why he was calling me (I had already declined the room offer). He emailed back that he just wanted to talk to me. I replied I found three calls on one day a bit obtrusive (since when is texting a problem?). He emailed back that he didn't know where I got that idea from, and wished to never speak to me again. Well, fine by me, so all was well.
Untill today. Back then he also said he had an entire flat to let, and if I was interested. I still am, but I don't have the money to pay for such luxury and it's obviously way above my budget. He said he was willing to accept less money for the apartment, but I don't feel comfortable owing him anything.
But today he left a message on my voicemail and asked if I wanted to call him. He sounded pretty business-like, but he didn't say what it was about.
Now. What shall I do? Keep ignoring him? call him and ask what it's about (I AM curious, although I guess it's better to not be)?
As a bit of background: I have been harrassed by a coworker in the past, and as a child which I won't explain further here. I definitely don't feel comfortable about the whole thing. But then WHY the fuck didn't I have the courage to stand up against him during that first meeting? I feel SO stupid