yurell wrote:...treating women...
Well, small comfort, the survey was apparently gender-neutral and brothers were allowed to list guys they'd want to rape. That's...better? I guess?
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yurell wrote:...treating women...
That doesn't seem to include statutory rape. Even if you disagree with AoC laws, there's no doubt that a 12 year old who goes along with sex with an adult very willingly was still raped.“any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal (for women), oral, or anal penetration through the use of physical force (such as being pinned or held down, or by the use of violence) or threats to physically harm and includes times when the victim was drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent.”
sje46 wrote:Also, drunk, high? At what point of drunkeness does it become rape? 0.08% blood alcohol? It says "alcohol facilitated" but plenty of people drink a beer or two to loosen up...if they have sex that night, I wouldn't think that they were taken advantage of. And being high? It doesn't specify what drug, even. Are we comfortable saying that having sex with a girl who just smoked weed is rape? What if the other participant is also drunk or high?
cemper93 wrote:Dude, I just presented an elaborate multiple fraction in Comic Sans. Who are you to question me?
sje46 wrote:Also, drunk, high? At what point of drunkeness does it become rape? 0.08% blood alcohol? It says "alcohol facilitated" but plenty of people drink a beer or two to loosen up...if they have sex that night, I wouldn't think that they were taken advantage of. And being high? It doesn't specify what drug, even. Are we comfortable saying that having sex with a girl who just smoked weed is rape? What if the other participant is also drunk or high?
Ulc wrote:sje46 wrote:But seriously, this comes up in every thread about rape - lets not turn this into yet another derailed "define exactly how drunk [person] have to be for it to be rape".
sje46 wrote:Ulc wrote:sje46 wrote:But seriously, this comes up in every thread about rape - lets not turn this into yet another derailed "define exactly how drunk [person] have to be for it to be rape".
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Also, how is that derailing? It's extremely on-topic.
You don't know. I do, because I took less time than it takes to write a post to look. It's appendix C in the study.sje46 wrote:They could have gotten that statistic using anything from "Have you ever had sex after drinking a beer?" to "Have someone ever manipulated you into sex after getting you drunk off 10 beers?" We simply don't know.
When you were drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent, how many people ever…
{if male: a woman or girl made you put your penis in her vagina}?
addams wrote:Politics is hard. I can't do it.
It takes a nasty Jr. High School Girl in a man's body to keep up.
sje46 wrote:Also, how is that derailing? It's extremely on-topic.
Indeed what I'm asking for is methodology. I had actually scanned through the pdf but didn't have the presence of mind to check the apendices. Thanks, roberto.Zamfir wrote:sje46 wrote:Also, how is that derailing? It's extremely on-topic.
It's also been discussed over and over and over again. If you just want to know what exact methodology and questions the study used, I suggest you look up the study yourself and report on what you find.
EDIT: like Robert did
Discussions on what should be drunk enough to count as rape. Because there's been enough of thosesje46 wrote:I see you using mod-voice, but you didn't actually say what it is that's actually unacceptable to talk about. Care to specify what's off-limits?
sje46 wrote:I had actually scanned through the pdf but didn't have the presence of mind to check the apendices.
addams wrote:Politics is hard. I can't do it.
It takes a nasty Jr. High School Girl in a man's body to keep up.
The problem with that is that there are a lot of people who get drunk explicitly to have drunk sex. In my experience, there is more drunk sex than drunk rape. It doesn't matter; the only way you are going to have people not bothering to get drunk before sex is if they aren't in any way inhibited about sex. For that to happen, I imagine that sex would have to be nearly as common as a handshake. Once you've gotten to that point though, the idea of rape might be very different. I'm all for making sex not a taboo, but you have to realize that you are playing a loooong game. What's step 1? As for off-comments.Роберт wrote:I'm not sure what else can be said, except we should all take an active stance against rape and sexual assault. Guys to not always "want it". Sex with someone who is drunk/high/sleeping is never okay unless you've gotten explicit consent beforehand... but even that's questionable, so you for the most part just don't. Jokes about getting someone drunk to bang them? Not cool. Lists of people you would like to rape? Not cool. Objectifying people? Not cool. If someone makes an off comment, don't let it go by. (Well, if you don't have the emotional energy to deal with it that's okay.)
Actually, when they have:Роберт wrote:...I'm not sure how anyone could see that as "not rape" unlessBelial wrote:Yes. Also, it isn't counted that way in many legal jurisdictions, either.Роберт wrote:Also, does that mean a woman forcing a man to put his p in her v isn't counted as rape?But I guess that may explain the lower incidence of male rape is they don't count even the most blatant rape as rape?Spoiler:
As a 'yes' to rape, without{if male} try to make you have vaginal sex with them, but sex did not happen?
I'm pretty they are explicitly stating the spoiler'd part.{if male} try to make you have vaginal sex with them, but sex did happen?
I've been sexually assaulted on too many occasions to count. That's news to me.Unwanted sexual contact (defined as unwanted sexual experiences involving touch but not sexual penetration, such as being kissed in a sexual way, or having sexual body parts fondled or grabbed)
sourmìlk wrote:Monopolies are not when a single company controls the market for a single product.
You don't become great by trying to be great. You become great by wanting to do something, and then doing it so hard you become great in the process.
nitePhyyre wrote:I've been sexually assaulted on too many occasions to count. That's news to me.Unwanted sexual contact (defined as unwanted sexual experiences involving touch but not sexual penetration, such as being kissed in a sexual way, or having sexual body parts fondled or grabbed)
BBC wrote:According to several studies of the US military funded by the Department of Veteran Affairs, 30% of military women are raped while serving, 71% are sexually assaulted, and 90% are sexually harassed.
Qaanol wrote:Also, and this regards domestic violence rather than rape, but according to Purple Berets, police officers are about four times more likely than others to commit domestic violence. “In two separate studies, 40% of police officers self-report that they have used violence against their domestic partners within the last year. In the general population, it's estimated that domestic violence occurs in about 10% of families.”

Qaanol wrote:Also, and this regards domestic violence rather than rape, but according to Purple Berets, police officers are about four times more likely than others to commit domestic violence. “In two separate studies, 40% of police officers self-report that they have used violence against their domestic partners within the last year. In the general population, it's estimated that domestic violence occurs in about 10% of families.”
HOLY... that's 40% counting only the cases reported by the perpetrators?
Who would've suspected that having a stressful job where you physically assault most people you spend more than a few minutes with would lead to a homelife with domestic abuse?
Griffin wrote:Who would've suspected that having a stressful job where you physically assault most people you spend more than a few minutes with would lead to a homelife with domestic abuse?
Especially when you can get away with it and no one will care. I don't think its surprising that its bad, but I think it's kind of surprising that it is THAT bad.
When 'asshole wife beater' is the default psych profile for a profession, is there any surprise when they are a bunch of asshole wife beaters?Harlod and Kumar go the Whitecastle wrote:Kumar: Excuse, me officer? Let me take a couple of guesses...
You were probably the big asshoe at your high school, right?
Cop: Absolutely right.
Kumar: You used to pick on guys like us everyday right?
Cop: With Pleasure!
Kumar: Then graduation day came, and we went to college, and you went nowhere, and you thought "Oh, hey, how can I still give them shit? Oh, I know, I'll become a cop!" Right? Well congradu-fucking-lations. Your dream has come true."
sourmìlk wrote:Monopolies are not when a single company controls the market for a single product.
You don't become great by trying to be great. You become great by wanting to do something, and then doing it so hard you become great in the process.
nitePhyyre wrote:@Dauric: Shit, I hadn't heard that the army is so low on troops that they've started to send police officers to Iraq. I guess all that training cracking the skulls of peaceful protesters will really pay off!
...and you were the only one...Dauric wrote:??? Huh? I was talking about soldiers deployed overseas in combat situations
sourmìlk wrote:Monopolies are not when a single company controls the market for a single product.
You don't become great by trying to be great. You become great by wanting to do something, and then doing it so hard you become great in the process.
Qaanol wrote:About one third of female soldiers in the US military get raped. By other soldiers. And those who report being raped, tend to get punished and demoted.
nitePhyyre wrote:...and you were the only one...Dauric wrote:??? Huh? I was talking about soldiers deployed overseas in combat situations
Amie wrote:Cathy, I now declare you to be an awesome person, by the powers vested in me by nobody, really.
yurell wrote:We need fewer homoeopaths, that way they'll be more potent!
Then perhaps quoting that instead of parts from two other posts about cops would have made that clearer to everyone else...Cathy wrote:The first bit is what I think he was responding to.
State-Level Estimates
• Across all types of violence
examined in this report, statelevel estimates varied with
lifetime estimates for women
ranging from 11.4% to 29.2% for
rape; 28.9% to 58% for sexual
violence other than rape; and
25.3% to 49.1% for rape, physical
violence, and/or stalking by an
intimate partner.
• For men, lifetime estimates
ranged from 10.8% to 33.7% for
sexual violence other than rape;
and 17.4% to 41.2% for rape,
physical violence, and/or stalking
by an intimate partner.
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