Meaux_Pas wrote: Jave D wrote:
Please tell me which part of that model coincides with your view that p!ck-up artists are nothing but rapists.
Gross misrepresentation of what I've actually sprayed.
NO DUDE THAT WAS ME
Well then I'll pose the question to you then. Again, the model:
Open->Transition->Attract->Qualify->Rapport->Close with a fish, kiss, sex, etc.Opening:
~Socially Skilled (Social Intuition)
~ChallengingSigns of attraction:
~She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
~She touches you.
~She plays with / tosses her hair.
~She asks you for your name or any other personal questions (e.g., age, where you live).
~She disagrees with you but laughs when she does.
~She compliments you on anything.
~She asks if you have a girlfriend or mentions your girlfriend, whether or not you’ve sprayed you have
~She calls you a player or a heartbreaker.
~She introduces you to her friends.
~She is laughing, smiling, and/or holding elbow contact with you.
~Passive signs (see below).Qualification:
A soft Qualifier will be as easy as bringing up topics that are likely to let her express her personality and
give you reasons to be attracted to her. Examples include:
~What-if questions (“if you could be any animal, what would you be?” etc.)
So a successful Qualification process
could look something like this:
2. Her response
3. Explore the topic
5. Pull back (optional)
6. New topic
7. Next QualifierComfort:
~Learning about each other’s’ life, job, friends, hobbies, family
~Finding commonalities: similar interests, similar experiences
~Discovering shared values
~Winning peer approval (her friends and/or family like you)
~Doing activities together
~Making future plans
~Projecting future adventures (more complex; discussed below)
~Leading her through a range of logic,including some strong ones
~Being trustworthy, especially in situations in which she has to rely on her trust in you (e.g., being
in your house alone with you)
~Not pressuring her for sex
Please tell me which part of that model coincides with your view that p!ck-up artists are nothing but rapists.[/quote]
I'm waiting for someone to say something worth sigging...