roband wrote:... something important came up that I HAD to comment on.
I found this very amusing. Can't quite put my finger on why...
My confession: I NEVER asked a girl out of whom I didn't know for absolutely certain that she liked me. (How was I absolutely certain? We make out and then she tells me she really likes me. That's pretty much the moment I ask them out.)
Problem with that technique is that the situation has to be just perfect for that to happen.
So yeah... I am scared to man up and ask this Girl at work out. I sort of already did ("Would you like to go for a beer with me next week?") and she kind of didn't get it ("Oh yeah, I am going to this bar with <male coworker that has crush on female coworker> and <female coworker that doesn't have a crush on male coworker> you should come too!"). But today she told me <male coworker> didn't like it when he heard that Girl would be coming too. I am terribly confused as to what is expected of me, if anything. Can I still assume I am going for drinks with them? Should I ask her again "because she didn't get it", or should I "take the hint that she does not want to go for a drink with just me", or should I just ASK what's going on to clarify all this and prevent possible miscommuni- ah... Okay.