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Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:Ulc wrote:We're not misreading you. You're getting through load and clear
Oh, then you're just making a slippery slope argument, i.e. that by not allowing women into the military (were it substantially more dangerous) then we must logically take all action to prevent women from making unsafe choices.
sourmìlk wrote:Ulc wrote:and what you are saying is "The government should not allow women to enter combat roles due to the danger of being raped". Which is directly the same as the government choosing to deny positions to women to keep them safe, that the government should dictate, for their own safety, what a woman can do. There is NO difference between the two statements, and both of them are horrible when you stop to consider the implications for more than 10 seconds.
The government deciding what women can do for their own safety comprises a much larger set of actions than the government refusing to create situations that are going to be unsafe. Thus the two are not equivalent. For example, passing a law telling women that they can't go outside a secluded women-only area is an element of the former set but not of the latter.
sourmìlk wrote:Ulc wrote:There is no misinterpretation here, there's just you perpetuating a horrible pierce of misogyny, namely that it's society's role to deny womens right for their own safety, and all the while you're trying to appear like the knight in shining armour. Seriously sourmilk, read what the fuck you're writing! And while you're at it, stopping moving goalposts across international borders might be a nice idea as well.
My argument has never been that we should deny women rights for their own safety: see above. Before you accuse me of misogyny and not "read[ing] what the fuck [I'm] writing", perhaps you should ensure that you understand my argument. Contrary to popular opinion, I tend not to hold egregiously immoral and bigoted views. If you think I am holding one, please consider it more probable (or at least equally possible) that you misunderstand me and not that I'm a maniac. I think you're reading in attitude from superficially similar arguments you've heard into what I'm saying, but I can't say for sure. And when have I moved goalposts?
Nordic Einar wrote:It was pretty fuckin' dangerous to be black in the military in the early days post-segregation. It's still pretty dangerous to be queer in the military. Also, being in the military is pretty fuckin' dangerous. This is a ridiculous argument, because the very nature of volunteering to join the military is to volunteer to be at danger.
The government "creates a situation that is going to be unsafe" when it sends people, with guns, to go shoot at other people with guns. It's the fucking military; it's by definition "unsafe". Further, women are volunteering to join combat units; the government isn't forcing anyone into an unsafe situation because the military is wholly voluntary. The only situation the government has created which is unsafe is one wherein it's okay to rape in the military - the responsibility of the government is then to, uh, break rape culture in the military. Not discriminate against women.
Most bigots don't believe they're bigotted, and the nature of privilege is that the privileged don't see it. You're actively promoting sex-based discrimination under the guise of "protecting women". You're punishing women's careers and ability to advance in the military (nevermind their right to non-discrimination) instead of punishing, y'know, rapists. You're arguing for the status quo, and when the status quo is "fucking bigotted" you're arguing for bigotry.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
Ghostbear wrote:Ghostbear wrote:Even with that rate as a guideline, there's still many other complications, such as the specific situations of individual women. Someone signing up from an area with a greater crime rate will have a different base rate, as will different income levels, educations, and I think even ethnicities. Someone signing up that's in an abusive relationship could very well be better off no matter what the expected military rate is. We can't reasonably filter through all of those variables (not least of which because not many of them will be known to us!) during recruitment, but we can trust those women to make a decision for themselves if we give them the right information beforehand.
Ghostbear wrote:This is the whole point of giving women the right to make their own decisions -- for some of them, that 30% risk is an improvement. Read that again; not every person's situation is the same -- you're damning those that are outside of the "average" range, and for what? To protect women that you think are too incompetent to make their own decisions, so much so, that they need you -- a male (as far as I have gathered) -- to make that decision for them? For some others, they wouldn't want to be intimidated away from something they want to do. And for even other women, they'll consider it an acceptable risk. Who are you to decide for them what is their best course of action? Are you OK telling every woman who would be worse off from being denied the right (presumably, about 70% of those that would serve) that you made their life worse in order to protect them from their inability to make proper decisions?
Also, I find your continued usage of "creating a situation" abhorrent: giving equal rights should not be seen as a "creating" a scenario. Forcing integration of the school system "created" a scenario where blacks would be more likely to be bullied and looked down upon by their peers -- yet I expect no one here (including yourself) would argue that that was the wrong thing to do. The government wasn't creating that scenario, it was granting equal rights and protection under to the law to a group of people in a way that they did not have it before. For someone who often speaks of rights, you are treating them very trivially in this discussion.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:I addressed those a while back. Given the reality of the numbers in the military and in real life, it doesn't make sense to bar more women from joining the military.
sourmìlk wrote:Well first, I don't know why we should define serving in the military as a right. I mean, I certainly believe in discriminating as little as possible when it comes to the military, and indeed all things, but I'm not sure I've seen it defined as a right. Note that I'm not saying it shouldn't be defined as a right. I haven't really generated an opinion yet as to whether serving in the military qualifies as a right.
sourmìlk wrote:As for resolving segregation: if it were the case that 30% of the African American students were to be raped (assuming a near-zero rate in the purely African American schools), I don't think we could morally justify resolving segregation. It would have, in fact, done more harm than good. Particularly seeing as, in that case, you are forcing the students into situations in which they would hypothetically be more likely to be raped. I get that this is a more utilitarian argument than I normally make, but I think that the (hypothetical) danger of the situation is so substantial that a very utilitarian argument starts having some merit here.
Ghostbear wrote:sourmìlk wrote:I addressed those a while back. Given the reality of the numbers in the military and in real life, it doesn't make sense to bar more women from joining the military.
You didn't address those points -- you addressed the facts. The facts presented caused you to change your view, however those points are directed at your logic and reasoning. Your reasoning being "if there is a large enough increase in the chance of harm, we shouldn't let them join the military". That logic assumes that you can make a all encompassing rule that works best for everyone in a situation. It doesn't work best for everyone, in fact it works worse for many of them. It also is based on the basic assumption that we can not trust women (and women specifically) to make their own decisions about their lives. That you will decide what risks are acceptable to them, that you are the arbiter of what harms they need to be protected from (for instance, you don't seem to see death as nearly as bad of an outcome, while I expect the vast majority would at least see it as a similar or worse outcome -- otherwise you'd be arguing for the removal of all combat roles for everyone, since people are significantly more likely to die from them!), that you know what is right for them. Your entire argument can be boiled down to you thinking women are too incompetent to make their own decisions, since military service for women is 100% voluntary. Why should you make their decisions?
sourmìlk wrote:Well first, I don't know why we should define serving in the military as a right. I mean, I certainly believe in discriminating as little as possible when it comes to the military, and indeed all things, but I'm not sure I've seen it defined as a right. Note that I'm not saying it shouldn't be defined as a right. I haven't really generated an opinion yet as to whether serving in the military qualifies as a right.
sourmìlk wrote:As for resolving segregation: if it were the case that 30% of the African American students were to be raped (assuming a near-zero rate in the purely African American schools), I don't think we could morally justify resolving segregation. It would have, in fact, done more harm than good. Particularly seeing as, in that case, you are forcing the students into situations in which they would hypothetically be more likely to be raped. I get that this is a more utilitarian argument than I normally make, but I think that the (hypothetical) danger of the situation is so substantial that a very utilitarian argument starts having some merit here.
Why does it have to be rape specifically? It's certainly one of the most despicable facets of humanity, but it's not the only harm that people can suffer. It's a balance of the short-term harm vs. the long-term less harm. In the short-term, the students would have suffered some increased risk of harm. In the long term, after the integration kinks are worked out, they end up vastly better off. They're no longer held as a separate entity, granted different levels of freedoms for their own "benefit".
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:It doesn't tell me why being in the military should be considered a right.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:I've talked about this plenty of times. See the last page or two.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
If you still feel you have, then quote your post where you did so.
sourmìlk wrote:If you find my addressing of your point to be insufficient, you have to explain how it's insufficient, not reiterate your point. That just tells me that you didn't read my response. I didn't say you hadn't read my posts. Whether you read them or not is irrelevant. You are responding as though they are not there. Would you prefer "Stop ignoring my posts" to "I've already addressed that"?
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:That's not a point, that's a request. And my answer to that request is "no." I am going to expend as little effort as possible as a result of anybody's failure to read what I've already explained.
sourmìlk wrote:Also, see the first post, second paragraph. It explains how my views have nothing to do with telling women what they can and can't do for their own safety. I don't know why you only you only would have looked at the first sentence.
sourmìlk wrote:The government deciding what women can do for their own safety comprises a much larger set of actions than the government refusing to create situations that are going to be unsafe. Thus the two are not equivalent. For example, passing a law telling women that they can't go outside a secluded women-only area is an element of the former set but not of the latter.
Ghostbear wrote:Even with that rate as a guideline, there's still many other complications, such as the specific situations of individual women. Someone signing up from an area with a greater crime rate will have a different base rate, as will different income levels, educations, and I think even ethnicities. Someone signing up that's in an abusive relationship could very well be better off no matter what the expected military rate is. We can't reasonably filter through all of those variables (not least of which because not many of them will be known to us!) during recruitment, but we can trust those women to make a decision for themselves if we give them the right information beforehand.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:so I'm hoping that means I'm making myself clearer.
but I'm not sure that justifies condoning rape.
Not to mention that I think the right to equal treatment means the right to equal treatment without being raped.
It explains how my views have nothing to do with telling women what they can and can't do for their own safety.
sourmìlk wrote:I also shouldn't need to provide evidence that I just made a claim, that's redundant, and I have no reason to believe you'll read it or understand it or absorb it the second time around. If I made a point, it's there. Making it again adds nothing. It just wastes my time.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:I think that a 30 point increase in the incidence of rape that could go on indefinitely constitutes an amount of short term harm that may outweigh the long term benefit, and is a problem that needs to be solved before integration.
yoni45 wrote:And here I was, hoping to find some interesting discourse on the topic...
The Original Article wrote:This past winter, the Defense Department published a report saying that nonlinear combat against a shadowy enemy in Iraq and Afghanistan has negated the notion of a frontline behind which women can be kept safe. Working in support roles, 144 women have been killed in action and 865 injured since the invasions of Afghanistan and Iraq, according to Defense Department data. As such, old prohibitions have become irrelevant, according to the report.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:Fair enough, but I'm not sure that justifies condoning rape. In this hypothetical situation, we know rape is going to happen. How can we, in good conscience, create a situation in which rape is going to happen? I'm not sure that granting equal treatment justifies the implicit allowance of rape. Not to mention that I think the right to equal treatment means the right to equal treatment without being raped.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:You pretty much got that there, and hopefully communicated it more clearly than I have. I would make the correction that while volunteering for the military might not be a right, equal treatment is.
As for portion D of the opponent's arguments: we should absolutely endeavor to correct the aggressors. I'm saying we should do that before introducing them to new victims.
Protip: That's what blame means.Ghostbear wrote:Those posts weren't about blame, they were about identifying the source of the problem -- once the source is located, you can then attempt to fix it. The problem here is the attitudes and actions of some of the men in the armed forces. So the solution is to get them to not be sexists or rapists to women serving with them (or at all).nitePhyyre wrote:It isn't about who is to blame. It is about how to get the most effective fighting force.
Ugh. I totally walked into that one by being a smart-ass. Let's try it again:Ghostbear wrote:It's too bad they aren't making the physical requirements for women identical to those for men then. Oh wait, that's exactly what they're doing.nitePhyyre wrote:Right, because sucking dick or having pigment is comparable to being a foot shorter and lacking 50 pounds of muscle. Derp.
nitePhyyre wrote:I'm sorry, but sucking dick or having pigment isn't comparable to a million years of evolutionary instincts.
Ghostbear wrote:And your (A) is easy to say when you aren't a woman being excluded from serving in the armed forces in a combat role if she wishes to. Lots of things are easy to say "that's easy to say" to -- that doesn't make it a particularly good reason to not do it.nitePhyyre wrote:A) That's easy to say when you aren't the one who is putting their life on the line during this 'short term' period.
Where do you two get off valuing one person's job preference over another person's LIFE? Seriously, What. The. Fuck?Arrian wrote:On the other hand, the only way to find out is to try, and I do think it is worth trying. <edit> Even though that means people will die in the process of learning the answer.</edit>
You might want to try reading the thread your posting in. It would help. Numerous posters have answered this.Ghostbear wrote:Your rebuttal in (A) would have worked exactly the same with previous integration in the military: why is it a valid defense now, when it wasn't valid then?
As I've said, and you apparently missed multiple times, individual talent can be largely irrelevant.Ghostbear wrote:As for (B).. really? You don't see the benefit of doubling the size of the talent pool you can draw from? You don't think the top 5% of female soldiers could quite possibly be superior to the bottom 5% (or 10% or 20% or whatever) of male soldiers?nitePhyyre wrote:B) What long term gains? Other than increased numbers that aren't needed, what are women going to bring to the table? I'm not seeing anything.
I haven't heard about the sniper thing. Do you know the mechanism behind it? Any sources? As for the other things you mentioned, I thought we were talking about what women would bring to the table in expanded combat roles. Not things they are already doing in non-combat roles.Ghostbear wrote:You haven't considered that their are certain tasks that a female soldier will just be plains superior at? In WW2, the Soviets found that women were superior snipers to men due to their physical traits. In many parts of the world, a terrified group of civilians is going to be more likely to talk to an armed foreign soldier if they're female. You'll be better able to expect women doing body searches of female civilians won't raise a shitstorm. There's a huge number of potential benefits, and the fact that you couldn't think up of any of them is baffling.
That is, in fact, precisely, what specific means.Ghostbear wrote:The issue we're talking about is women in the US marines. The objections we're getting is the attitudes of male soldiers in the US marines -- if those issues exist, then yes, it is an issue of american culture, because everyone involved in the issue is american. That other westernish cultures might share that issue does not mean that the problem is not specific to ours.nitePhyyre wrote:Actually, the "we must protect the women first" problem people keep refferring to comes from data from the IDF. So no, not an american culture problem.
Sarcasm, not irony. And you couldn't have missed the point harder if you tried.Ulc wrote:YES! This Argument so much, we should not create a situation where women can be raped, we must prohibit women drinking alcohol! And we certainly can't allow them out the door without being accompanied by a male family member! Or at least a proxy of one, where the male family member has agreed that the proxy can be trusted! And no showing bare skin either! We reduce the chance of rape!sourmìlk wrote:I think our responsibility exceeds simply informing women. While it's not up to the government to force women to engage in safe behaviour, neither is it ethical for the government to create a situation in which rape is going to happen very often.
In case anyone didn't notice, the above is irony.
You have to be older than 17 to join the marines. Are we enforcing a culture where youth have their agency taken away?Ulc wrote:We cannot in any ethical way deny women rights that men have, without enforcing a culture where each individual woman's agency are taken away from her, and she's left without the ability to hold a independent agenda - and that's exactly the culture that we call rape-culture, a culture where women are property, and taking the sex you see them "owing you", against their will, is an common act that a lot of people nod at and say "sure, I can understand him" (even if they publicly criticize him). In the short term, denying women the right to enter the military might seem like it's combating rape, but in the long term, it's exactly the kind of rules that directly lead to the base-line rape incident rate being 16-25% (depending on studies and estimates of dark numbers).
No. It doesn't start with the idea "we must protect women, even against their will". In fact, it doesn't start with an idea at all. It starts with the fact that women are biologically more valuable than men are. Then in a few steps you get to the fact that if you have the genes that give you an "we must protect women, even against their will" attitude you are more likely to pass on those genes.Ulc wrote:People like you is what is wrong with us. It's people like you that make well intentioned arguments that directly works against women, it's the idea of "we must protect women, even against their will" that in a few steps gets twisted into "women are not capable of protecting themselves" which in a few more steps means "doing things to a woman without her consent is okay" - and the next step should be so obvious that I'm not even going to show it.What is wrong with us?
Schrödingers rapist is offensive because of how badly it mangles statistics, logic, and common sense.Ulc wrote:It's people being offended of the concept of schrödingers rapist...
Correlation does not imply causation. I.e.: Do we rape a lot because making jokes about rape removes the stigma, or do we make jokes about rape because rape happens a lot and humour is a coping method?Ulc wrote:Rape culture, it exist, we're all part of it.
We do this ALL THE TIME for EVERYTHING! Did you do a test that enabled you to take a test for the drivers licence, or did you just become old enough? Did you take a psych exam to see if you were responsible enough to have sex, or did you just become old enough? Did you take a political science test to enable you to vote, or did you just become old enough? Etc. Why should/shouldn't the military be any different? I mean sure, in an ideal world, everything would be tailored to the individual. But, this is the real world.Ghostbear wrote:You didn't address those points -- you addressed the facts. The facts presented caused you to change your view, however those points are directed at your logic and reasoning. Your reasoning being "if there is a large enough increase in the chance of harm, we shouldn't let them join the military". That logic assumes that you can make a all encompassing rule that works best for everyone in a situation. It doesn't work best for everyone, in fact it works worse for many of them.
(Again, I must have missed that part.) I have no problem with a military deciding who it wants to accept into its organization. I have a feeling that the military knows what it needs more than some random civy.Ghostbear wrote:It also is based on the basic assumption that we can not trust women (and women specifically) to make their own decisions about their lives. That you will decide what risks are acceptable to them, that you are the arbiter of what harms they need to be protected from (for instance, you don't seem to see death as nearly as bad of an outcome, while I expect the vast majority would at least see it as a similar or worse outcome -- otherwise you'd be arguing for the removal of all combat roles for everyone, since people are significantly more likely to die from them!), that you know what is right for them. Your entire argument can be boiled down to you thinking women are too incompetent to make their own decisions, since military service for women is 100% voluntary. Why should you make their decisions?
Tell me honestly, you didn't get through typing that with a straight face, did you? "You have the right to attempt to exercise your rights given a certain set of of limitations on those rights." And actually it wouldn't stop them from attempting to join. Just in being successful in the attempt.Ghostbear wrote:You have the right to decide to attempt to join the military if you are within a certain age bracket ... Your argument would remove that right from women if the numbers were just a bit different.
Pre-integration, blacks got an education from black schools, whites from white schools. After integration blacks and white got and education from schools. My history knowledge is pretty non-existant on the CRM. How are they vastly better off afterwards? Is it that black schools were of a much lower quality?Ghostbear wrote:Why does it have to be rape specifically? It's certainly one of the most despicable facets of humanity, but it's not the only harm that people can suffer. It's a balance of the short-term harm vs. the long-term less harm. In the short-term, the students would have suffered some increased risk of harm. In the long term, after the integration kinks are worked out, they end up vastly better off. They're no longer held as a separate entity, granted different levels of freedoms for their own "benefit".
I think the crux of the issue is exactly what traits should go on that list.yurell wrote:It's not a right. What is a right is equal treatment — if you have a set of requirements and they are met, the gender / race / sexual orientation / <insert unrelated trait> of the person shouldn't matter.sourmìlk wrote:It doesn't tell me why being in the military should be considered a right.
Exactly! That's why we don't bother to give soldiers body armour.Nordic Einar wrote:It was pretty fuckin' dangerous to be black in the military in the early days post-segregation. It's still pretty dangerous to be queer in the military. Also, being in the military is pretty fuckin' dangerous. This is a ridiculous argument, because the very nature of volunteering to join the military is to volunteer to be at danger.
Shit, did I miss the post where he said it was acceptable for men to be raped, and we shouldn't concern ourselves with man rape. What? He hasn't said that? Oh, okay. So in reality he is actively promoting rape-based discrimination under the guise of "protecting people".Nordic Einar wrote:You're actively promoting sex-based discrimination under the guise of "protecting women".
Yes and No. I, for one, prefer to have my rapists halfway across the world being shot at. Rather than, you know, being at home, raping.LaserGuy wrote:If rape is the problem, and most of the rapists are men, rather than denying women the ability to work in the armed forces, wouldn't it make sense to deny men the ability to work in the armed forces?
Huh? Yes they do. Or maybe it changes from country to country. But in the US they most definitely do. Did you know that service members aren't allowed to sue their employer? That's right, forcing the military to follow labour laws is against the law. Why? It hurts fighting capability. And fighting capability isn't some vague nebulous concept, it is all the military does. It is their reason for being.Hawknc wrote:We've had this debate before about other protected demographics regarding race and sexuality; the armed forces do not get a free pass on discrimination just because of a vague, nebulous argument about fighting capability.
Most likely, either that or we will look back and say "oh we had these problems, they were trivial to fix".Hawknc wrote:In twenty years when the military culture has adjusted and women are serving alongside men in frontline roles, we're going to look back and wonder what the hell the problem was.
Sickening thought: Someone gets raped. That person will more than likely being taking some sort of medical leave. Then the rapist get discharged. The military looses two members. If they 'LA LA LA' they lose none, or sometimes one. Very bad incentives here.Thesh wrote:If the worry is that the female soldiers will be raped, maybe the military could start taking allegations seriously, instead of covering their ears and yelling "LA LA LA I AM NOT LISTENING".
sourmìlk wrote:Monopolies are not when a single company controls the market for a single product.
You don't become great by trying to be great. You become great by wanting to do something, and then doing it so hard you become great in the process.
nitePhyyre wrote:Protip: That's what blame means.Ghostbear wrote:Those posts weren't about blame, they were about identifying the source of the problem -- once the source is located, you can then attempt to fix it. The problem here is the attitudes and actions of some of the men in the armed forces. So the solution is to get them to not be sexists or rapists to women serving with them (or at all).nitePhyyre wrote:It isn't about who is to blame. It is about how to get the most effective fighting force.
I think everyone agrees that the solution is to get them to not be sexists or rapists. The question is: Do we expand the scope of the problem then try to fix it, or, do we fix the problem first?
This also leads to the interesting questions of: can we even fix the problem without expanding it first?
nitePhyyre wrote:I'm sorry, but sucking dick or having pigment isn't comparable to a million years of evolutionary instincts.
nitePhyyre wrote:Ghostbear wrote:And your (A) is easy to say when you aren't a woman being excluded from serving in the armed forces in a combat role if she wishes to. Lots of things are easy to say "that's easy to say" to -- that doesn't make it a particularly good reason to not do it.nitePhyyre wrote:A) That's easy to say when you aren't the one who is putting their life on the line during this 'short term' period.Where do you two get off valuing one person's job preference over another person's LIFE? Seriously, What. The. Fuck?Arrian wrote:On the other hand, the only way to find out is to try, and I do think it is worth trying. <edit> Even though that means people will die in the process of learning the answer.</edit>
nitePhyyre wrote:Hypothetically: Women walking down a dark path have a 90% chance of being raped.
Sourmilk: That's horrible, we should do something about it. How about we stop women, but not men, from walking on these unlit paths until we retrofit them with lights.
Ulc: You sexist bastard! Don't you see how that leads directly to requiring male escorts and hijabs?
No, I really, really don't.
You have to be older than 17 to join the marines. Are we enforcing a culture where youth have their agency taken away?Ulc wrote:We cannot in any ethical way deny women rights that men have, without enforcing a culture where each individual woman's agency are taken away from her, and she's left without the ability to hold a independent agenda - and that's exactly the culture that we call rape-culture, a culture where women are property, and taking the sex you see them "owing you", against their will, is an common act that a lot of people nod at and say "sure, I can understand him" (even if they publicly criticize him). In the short term, denying women the right to enter the military might seem like it's combating rape, but in the long term, it's exactly the kind of rules that directly lead to the base-line rape incident rate being 16-25% (depending on studies and estimates of dark numbers).
You have to be younger than 28 to join the marines. Are we enforcing a culture where people who are older than 30 have their agency taken away?
You have to have a high school diploma to join the marines. Are we enforcing a culture where high school dropouts have their agency taken away?
You have to be physically fit to join the marines. Are we enforcing a culture where the handicapped have their agency taken away?
nitePhyyre wrote:Correlation does not imply causation. I.e.: Do we rape a lot because making jokes about rape removes the stigma, or do we make jokes about rape because rape happens a lot and humour is a coping method?Ulc wrote:Rape culture, it exist, we're all part of it.
nitePhyyre wrote:We do this ALL THE TIME for EVERYTHING! Did you do a test that enabled you to take a test for the drivers licence, or did you just become old enough? Did you take a psych exam to see if you were responsible enough to have sex, or did you just become old enough? Did you take a political science test to enable you to vote, or did you just become old enough? Etc. Why should/shouldn't the military be any different? I mean sure, in an ideal world, everything would be tailored to the individual. But, this is the real world.Ghostbear wrote:You didn't address those points -- you addressed the facts. The facts presented caused you to change your view, however those points are directed at your logic and reasoning. Your reasoning being "if there is a large enough increase in the chance of harm, we shouldn't let them join the military". That logic assumes that you can make a all encompassing rule that works best for everyone in a situation. It doesn't work best for everyone, in fact it works worse for many of them.
nitePhyyre wrote:I have no problem with a military deciding who it wants to accept into its organization. I have a feeling that the military knows what it needs more than some random civy.
"Why should I make their decisions?" Because they are the ones asking me for a job.
nitePhyyre wrote:Pre-integration, blacks got an education from black schools, whites from white schools. After integration blacks and white got and education from schools. My history knowledge is pretty non-existant on the CRM. How are they vastly better off afterwards? Is it that black schools were of a much lower quality?Ghostbear wrote:Why does it have to be rape specifically? It's certainly one of the most despicable facets of humanity, but it's not the only harm that people can suffer. It's a balance of the short-term harm vs. the long-term less harm. In the short-term, the students would have suffered some increased risk of harm. In the long term, after the integration kinks are worked out, they end up vastly better off. They're no longer held as a separate entity, granted different levels of freedoms for their own "benefit".
nitePhyyre wrote:I think the crux of the issue is exactly what traits should go on that list.yurell wrote:It's not a right. What is a right is equal treatment — if you have a set of requirements and they are met, the gender / race / sexual orientation / <insert unrelated trait> of the person shouldn't matter.sourmìlk wrote:It doesn't tell me why being in the military should be considered a right.
nitePhyyre wrote:Exactly! That's why we don't bother to give soldiers body armour.Nordic Einar wrote:It was pretty fuckin' dangerous to be black in the military in the early days post-segregation. It's still pretty dangerous to be queer in the military. Also, being in the military is pretty fuckin' dangerous. This is a ridiculous argument, because the very nature of volunteering to join the military is to volunteer to be at danger.
nitePhyyre wrote:How about letting them be separate but equal? Have all female units, and all male units. It beats separate and unequal during the transition, no?
Malice wrote:nitePhyyre wrote:Hypothetically: Women walking down a dark path have a 90% chance of being raped.
Sourmilk: That's horrible, we should do something about it. How about we stop women, but not men, from walking on these unlit paths until we retrofit them with lights.
Ulc: You sexist bastard! Don't you see how that leads directly to requiring male escorts and hijabs?
No, I really, really don't.
I bolded my correction; now do you see? If not, why?
Malice wrote:Separate is inherently unequal.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
sourmìlk wrote:Malice wrote:Separate is inherently unequal.
How do you figure?
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
And if members of the group in question state in clear, unambiguous terms, that they'd rather be treated equally--and take that risk--rather than let you make the decision for them? What then?sourmìlk wrote:Those seem like things making separate practically equivalent to unequal, not inherently unequal. But that's a nitpick. However, a situation in which one group is raped and the other isn't isn't particularly equal either. I'd rather go with the safer inequality.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
We're talking about people signing up for a job that involves being shot at by people who want to kill you. We are already 'enabling unsafe choices', here. When a woman tells you she wants to serve in the military, what's going to be your response--"Sorry, but the government feels really strongly about letting you make decisions that put you at any sort of risk. Oh, by the way, did you hear about those soldiers of ours that just got blown to fucking pieces yesterday? Man, talk about crazy!"sourmìlk wrote:I have two possible responses and I'm not sure which I prefer. The first is "Okay then, go right ahead." And that seems nice, but it also means you're allowing rape to happen under your watch, knowingly. So there's also the alternative response of "If you want to take that risk, that's fine, but we don't want to be the ones to facilitate that". I'm not uncomfortable with hypothetical desegregation because it allows people to make unsafe choices, I'm uncomfortable with it because we enable those unsafe choices.
The Great Hippo wrote:We're talking about people signing up for a job that involves being shot at by people who want to kill you. We are already 'enabling unsafe choices', here. When a woman tells you she wants to serve in the military, what's going to be your response--"Sorry, but the government feels really strongly about letting you make decisions that put you at any sort of risk. Oh, by the way, did you hear about those soldiers of ours that just got blown to fucking pieces yesterday? Man, talk about crazy!"sourmìlk wrote:I have two possible responses and I'm not sure which I prefer. The first is "Okay then, go right ahead." And that seems nice, but it also means you're allowing rape to happen under your watch, knowingly. So there's also the alternative response of "If you want to take that risk, that's fine, but we don't want to be the ones to facilitate that". I'm not uncomfortable with hypothetical desegregation because it allows people to make unsafe choices, I'm uncomfortable with it because we enable those unsafe choices.
There are women who want to serve their country in the same capacity that men do. Let them.
Problem solved.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
Bullshit. If this were true, we wouldn't have an active military at all; the safest military is one that doesn't exist.sourmìlk wrote:I don't really get this argument. Yes the military is unsafe, but why does that mean we should be okay with making it more unsafe? Even in the military, we should work to maximize safety.
Terry Pratchett wrote:The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.
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